It used to be popular to “poke” someone on Facebook. It was merely a way to get someone’s attention. Lately, much “poking” has occurred over political debate. It acts more like a provocation.
Oh, I know I’m stubborn. But, I figure if you’ve got an opinion, you should hold it so firmly that you can confidently promote it by provoking others to a healthy debate.
But, I’ve learned I’m a bit odd. I can champion my opinions and never get offended by someone else’s opposing opinion. In fact, I seek them out, because….
“As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” Proverbs 27:17
As I share my firmly held opinions and read the responses that too often devolve into personal attacks because I don’t share their firmly held opinions, I am clarifying my principles and conclusions. (I don’t quibble on facts!)
Usually, the “sharpening” results in stronger foundations and more precise descriptions of my principles and conclusions.
Opposing responses force me to ask myself, “How did I come to this conclusion?” So, I revisit the facts (sometimes there is additional information I need to consider) and re-examine my principles (Creationist- check. Conservative- check. Constitutionalist- check) to review my opinions.
While I rarely change my opinions (because I do my homework on facts and have very basic principles), this process helps me during a debate, because I’m forced to be more precise in my arguments, and am able to present them from the various perspectives I have considered. Granted, sometimes my sarcasm can do more harm than good- I need to work on that.
The commentary associated with Proverbs 27:17 admonishes believers to conduct conversations with the purpose of edification- making each other wiser for participating. Conversing only with those with whom you agree will never provoke deeper thought, and may do harm by reinforcing false assumptions. Challenging the positions of others provides opportunities to sharpen the mind and vocabulary by defending strongly held conclusions.
This can be done without giving offense as long as the discussion does not devolve into presumptions or personal attacks. Those who become offended and resort to name-calling are not as confident in their opinions as those who can argue without taking offense, and therefore do not reap the benefits of becoming sharpened in the process.
Sadly, healthy debate is not encouraged in school anymore. In fact, especially in establishments of “higher education”, it is discouraged. Dogma and politically correct constructs are indoctrinated. This eliminates the opportunities to challenge incorrect facts or weak principles and fosters the idea that opinions are inviolate- that they are somehow part of one’s person that should never be threatened.